Hesitating

The overall theme of the song revolves around uncertainty and the struggle to communicate feelings in a relationship. The singer grapples with hesitation and confusion, wanting to know where they stand but feeling left in the dark. This tension creates a sense of longing and frustration, as they deal with their emotions and the fear of risking it all.

Verse 1

Babe, give me up before, then you don't wanna talk about it
Wait, now do I want you more, girl oh my god
Wrongfully hesitating I swear I would never wait
It's just hard for me everyday when I don't know your thoughts cause you never told me while she was my one and only
I want it all
I want ohh

In this verse, the singer expresses confusion and urgency. They feel like they're caught between wanting to move on and hoping for clarity. The phrase "wrongfully hesitating" suggests that they know they shouldn't be stuck in this limbo, yet they can't help it. The mention of "she was my one and only" adds depth, hinting at a past relationship that complicates their current feelings.

Chorus

I wanna try, but I don't know what I could ever say
When you won't even go to mine, but If you called me up I'd stay
For you
No I don't wanna be the guy to give her everything she likes
Until he's blue
But if you go and try it I might have to cross the line and say

The chorus captures the singer's internal struggle. They want to try and connect, but there's a barrier because the other person isn’t open. The line "if you called me up I'd stay" shows their willingness to be there, even if it feels one-sided. The fear of becoming someone who gives too much, only to feel drained, highlights their concern about losing themselves in the relationship.

Verse 2

Babe, give me up before, then you don't wanna talk about it
Wait, now do I want you more, girl oh my god
Wrongfully hesitating I swear I would never wait
It's just hard for me everyday when I don't know your thoughts cause you never told me while she was my one and only
I want it all
I want ohh

This verse repeats some lines from the first, reinforcing the singer's turmoil. The repetition emphasizes their frustration and the feeling of being stuck. It shows how these feelings linger and don’t resolve, which can be exhausting. They still crave clarity and connection, but the lack of communication is a significant hurdle.

Chorus

I wanna try, but I don't know what I could ever say
When you won't even go to mine, but If you called me up I'd stay
For you
No I don't wanna be the guy to give her everything she likes
Until he's blue
But if you go and try it I might have to cross the line and say

In this chorus, the tension builds again. The singer feels compelled to reach out but is unsure how to bridge the gap. "When you won’t even go to mine" highlights the lack of mutual effort, making them question their worth in the relationship. It’s a push and pull, wanting to connect while fearing rejection and overcommitment.

Bridge

No, I don't wanna be the guy to give her everything she likes
Until he's blue
But if you go and try it I might have to cross the line and say

The bridge reveals a deeper fear of losing themselves. The singer recognizes the risk of giving too much and being left empty. They’re aware of their limits but also feel tempted to take a chance. This moment of realization adds weight to their hesitation, showing how tricky love can be.

Outro

Babe, give me up before, then you don't wanna talk about it
Wait, now do I want you more, girl oh my god
Wrongfully hesitating I swear I would never wait
It's just hard for me everyday when I don't know your thoughts cause you never told me while she was my one and only
I want it all
I want it all

The outro mirrors the earlier verses, emphasizing that despite their struggles, the singer still desires everything from the relationship. It reinforces the idea that they’re caught in a loop of uncertainty and longing. The repetition serves as a powerful reminder of their ongoing emotional conflict.

Closing Thoughts

"Hesitating" beautifully captures the feelings of uncertainty and desire that often come with love. The singer's struggle to communicate and their fear of vulnerability are relatable to many. The way Malcolm Todd expresses these complex emotions makes the song feel raw and genuine, resonating with anyone who's ever been torn in a relationship.